"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover."
- Mark Twain
In this spirit Scott & Christy came to Africa. Now look up and read the quote again, and then keep in mind that Scott and Christy are Deaf travelers.
Yes, you read it right. They are Deaf.
"We both are Deaf- with the capital D, indicating that we are culturally Deaf," says Scott. "We have been Deaf since birth," continues Christy,"and we communicate through our natural language: American Sign Language, our preferred mode of communication. Let us tell you a bit about ourselves first," she suggests.
"Scott worked with Deaf youth for the Provincial Services for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing in Vancouver, British Columbia while studying towards a degree in Child and Youth Care Counsellor at Douglas College. I taught English literacy to Deaf adults at the Deaf Academic Upgrading Program at George Brown College in Toronto, Ontario. We have been traveling throughout South Africa, Namibia and Lesotho for two months prior to our trip with African Trails. Overlanding has been an incredible experience for both of us, giving us the opportunity to travel on the road to amazing African countries at a very affordable rate."
I felt incredibly privileged to get to know Scott and Christy a little better while they were on the truck with us. Not because they are Deaf. Not because they are different. But because they are simply the nicest couple you can meet. Full of the joys of life, interested -- and interesting, eager to tackle new challenges, experience new things and discover news worlds. And yes, the fact that they are deaf, taught me, for one, so much. Having them around, one involuntarily looked at everything in a different way -- in a much more concentrated way. There were moments when I was reminded of what it was like to go for a nature walk with one of my children when they were still toddlers; everything became new, fresh, unfamiliar; everything was as if you were seeing and experiencing it for the first time -- and turned this world into a most wondrous place! In the instance of being with Scott and Christy, I looked at my surroundings in a way that I had never done before -- imagining what it was like for them not hearing any sounds -- not hearing anything. At the same time, when I had to 'translate' for them what was being said or explained, I also had to listen so much more attentively so that I could not only give them every bit of information relayed to us, but could give them the underlying meanings, the insinuated details, the whole picture.
And yet, afterwards, when Scott and Christy were asked whether they would travel in a similar way again, they categorically replied: no. I must admit I can understand that it must have been terribly hard for them. So often -- too often, I find that, unless I am in the right place at the right time -- at all times, I do not hear important information about the group's plans -- such as what time to be where, what to bring with me, and so on. So, when Christy mentions that this happened to them a lot, I can completely understand that she feels that it was due to the fact that they cannot hear. "Our main reason why we would not travel by overland again is purely due to the communication issues. We were, unintentionally, excluded in social situations that made us feel lonely and frustrated," she says. And it disturbed me when I heard this; it made me realise that every time I felt 'excluded' or behind the power curve how much more they must have experienced it. At least when I miss something I can usually quite quickly pick up that things are happening of which I know nothing. They cannot, because of they missed the original information, they would have no idea what people are referring to in case they do talk about it afterwards and in case Scott happens to be lip read right at that moment.
And speaking of lipreading; "Lipreading is not an easy task," explains Christy, "because only 30% of the English language can be read on the lips, and the rest is based on guesswork. Often we would connect the dots based on context and how well we knew the person."
To try to make communication a little easier, we did try to write -- on a white board or on paper, everything that was said and discussed, but no matter how fast one writes, you can never get everything down that is said -- not the nuances, not the subtleties, and so much is lost in translation. And, by the very nature of this exercise, the person who is writing is missing out as well on the body language, quick interaction in the group and much of the communication which is happening while he or she is busy writing and reading the response from Christy or Scott. All round an unsatisfactory situation for everyone involved.
Looking back on the time that these two lovely people spent with us, I am sure many of us cherish the memories. I can understand that they might not want to do something similar again, but am overjoyed that they are still traveling and still throwing off the bowlines, still sailing away from the safe harbor and still catching the trade winds in their sails. Explore, dream and discover, Scott and Christy, and continue on your journey knowing that you gave us an example of what one can do despite the circumstances; you most definitely served as a wonderful inspiration -- and as incentive to appreciate what we have.
At least once a day, since their departure, I remind myself to use every sense I have and to look at the world through new eyes; Proust said the only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but having new eyes..
Who? Scott & Christy are two Deaf Canadians with a mission: to experience the beauty and wonder of Africa and Asia and to learn the cultures and signed languages of various Deaf communities along the way.
Where? Canada eh!
Why? Because they are both an inspiration!
What? A pleasure and privilege to have in the group
Tattoos? None -- that can be signed...
Read more about their amazing travels and see their stunning photographs here